14 Wonderful Ways To Get More Love In Your Life

 Author Unknown

1.  GIVE LOVE.  If you focus on being more loving, chances are you will also be more loved.     

    Try cheering other people up or giving little positive reminders. 

2.  GIVE EVALUATED PRAISE.  Find something nice about everything around you.  If you 

     really find something nice about another person, say it.

3.  REMEMBER LITTLE THINGS.  Let other people know that you've thought about them, 

     that you've remembered them, whether or not there is an occasion.

4.  HELP OTHERS.  Try to find ways of helping other people, sharing your talents and      

     time.  Make sure that it won't hamper what you need to do, though.

5.  DON'T TRY TO MAKE OTHERS INTO WHAT THEY ARE NOT.  Accept a person for 

     who he/she is or is not.  If you don't agree with whatever he or she says, keep your own 

     opinion, but respect the other's.

6.  DRAW GENUINE FEELINGS OF LOVE.  Accept the truths about yourself; this way 

     you'll know if you are being mocked or flattered.  Don't put yourself down either!

7.  BE UNDERSTANDING.  Don't be vengeful or resentful if you feel you don't get the 

     love and attention you deserve.  Try to understand the reasons behind the other's lack 

     of demonstration of affection for you. Perhaps you can help him or her in whatever 

     problem at hand. 

8.  EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS.  Talk to the people you are close to about what's bugging   

     you.  Let them know and feel how much they're a part of your life and how much you 

     appreciate their being there.

9.  GIVE A HUG.  Don't be afraid to reach out and touch; hug your loved ones.  Of course, 

     this is not something you do to anybody anytime.

10.  LOVE YOURSELF.  Nope, this isn't an advertisement.  If you accept yourself for 

      yourself, it will be easier to do so with others.  If you understand yourself, it will also 

      be easier to listen to and understand other people.

11.  THINK POSITIVE.  Don't dwell on the past and the negative aspects of your life.  

      Move on, think positive; look on the bright side; SMILE!

12.  PURSUE YOUR DREAMS.  Give yourself the determination and self-drive you have 

      never had before.  Go for it!

13.  SHOW A VITALITY AND ZEAL FOR LIFE.  Being excited about life itself is 

      infectious.  Help others see the beauty in them, and the beauty of life.  Delight in the  

      simple miracles that occur everyday (sunrise, sunset, etc...)

14.  SHARE YOURSELF.  This does not mean being a slave for others.  This means being 

      ready to lend a helping hand, taking time out to listen to others, reaching out to others,  

      etc...without losing yourself.  By making yourself approachable and likeable, you will get   

      more love in your life.